After Breakup, Create Culture!

After Breakup, Create Culture!

In life we all experiences unexpected and something devastating at some point of time. Sometime we thought of loosing the prospective of gaining any thing. It may be Breakup from Friend, Breakup from Job, Breakup from Relations or occurrence of unhappy thing/situation, knowingly 'failure', a term which disturbs and scattered the energy levels. It is a universal part in the life of us 'human'.

Sometimes while giving up after failure is the most devastating rather looking for the future challenging events. Each of us have gone through breakup at something in our lives, yet the live does't stop us from breathing.

After breakup hook up with the life, create the culture to overcome from the situations soon. Look after the reasons behind the breakup and try to overcome from that problem in the next event. I'm saying 'try', because we are human and we may be going with several happenings, things, events simultaneously with us at a single point of time. 

Here I put some points I have learned from the life, I lived. Looking forward and creating culture to overcome from the drastic situations, breakups, is the way to live life.

Breakup is not final, it is a startup of new job, new relations, new opportunities, new events, new challenges. The success, happiness come to those who fail more frequently, they create culture of trying all around and develop strength inside to tackle with situation more effectively and confidently.

Sometimes "It's over" or "why to try again" is the most frequent thoughts come in the person's mind after breakup. It is difficult to overcome from the drastic situation, but keeping a clear vision that look after the current circumstances creates a culture to move forward. After breakup empowering negative aspects is just like  killing a live either of the person or prospective.

Breakup is not fatal it comes to those who tries to accomplish any target, who lives the life, who sustain the situations, who delivers the probabilities. Breakup is nevertheless consider till you quit from the situation come in your way. Breakup at any point of time may affect creativity, will, spirit, vision, drive, desire, passion or dreams and allowing it to affect the life is just like inhaling poison to destroy the faith of life. Breakup is not of our choice but overcome from it is absolutely power of aspects which creates confident to try again.

Breakup is not forever, it is hard to believe when surrounded by breakups. It does't last until or unless we consciously choose to keep a track of loss occurred. The fact to overcome from breakup is to learn from it, not to fade down because you tried it. Breakup is another chance to re-invent, re-create, re-design, re-structure, re-define the culture to accomplish target. 

We have gone through the scientist Thomas Edison, who tried 9,999 different ways to develop a light bulb all of which failed until his 10,000th try when he invented light bulb. He created a culture of trying. He keeps trying until the objective accomplished.

The life of APJ Abdul Kalam Sir is another era from which you can learn, how to overcome from breakup. It is just because of creating culture of trying. 

#राजेश्वर_सिंह (#RajeshwarSingh)