Thursday, October 4, 2012

We Indian, best in us !!!!



During the journey in Metro usually I utilize my time in communication with persons.

In last few trip, I communicated with several humans of different terrain of the world. All of them greeted India about the beauty, culture, technologies & also the human behavior. 

During the conversation with two buddies from Afghanistan they shared their experience with India. As they are here for treatment & were examine in AIIMS, they shared their feeling, behavior of Indians with them & their respect towards the citizens of Indian origin was great to feel proud of being Indian.

In next conversation Guy was from Delhi itself & was going to play a role in a Television Show. His thoughts, future plans, strategies about living the life was quite impressive & made me realize that every gainer (in future, achiever) have same level of hardness & have to worship with same level of hard work in achieving the dreams.

Yesterday evening, I communicated a Gentle Man from France, he was reading a novel "Delhi: A Novel by Khushwant Singh". He is here for his holidays & utilizing his time in reading Indian Literature, roaming across the places, monuments in Delhi. He too expresses his happiness about the culture, tradition, behavior of Indian.

Conversation with different people of different places make me feel that we Indian are great in this era too instead of Politics & Political Parties.

I hope Politics will also make us feel proud, some-day.

An incident to learn!!!!

Few day back, I was coming from office to my room, I was using service of DTC. Due to journey at peak hour, Bus was filled too much. Suddenly I hear voice of a lady, who was asking to leave a seat (reserved for ladies), which was occupied by a man.

I noticed that a young lady was doing one-to-one wording with a man who had occupied that seat. I too was willing to support that lady but when I get introduced about the matter, after that I really fade up of the behavior/rudeness of that lady.

That moment rolled my mind to think, is it a lady?? The one species on this planet, who have great heart, the one who try to give happiness every where, the one who make the world to realize the feelings, the one who make others happy, the one who think about family/others before herself!!

The lady was rude & behaving with bad manner with that person (sitting on the reserved seat). We (the passengers along with me) made her to feel that she had some thing bad in her.

The main story is like, there was a person with his wife and a baby. Those were seems as poor (I thought from their clothing's). They were occupied a pair of seat, reserved for only women.

His wife was ill & omitting that time. So, he took his baby in lap & trying to help his wife somehow to feel good.

Even on this situation the lady (full of rude nature) was pressurizing him to leave that seat for her.

As, person was poor, he bothered to express his what-to-do-situation. As generally happens, some of passengers some in to front & tried to tell all the situation & asked to lady to-not-to pressurize that person. The lady get angry & expresses her mulishness to get that seat. Even when an old ages uncle agreed to give his seat for she, she started to insist to get that reserved seat only.

We (I, along with some passengers) praised to her to-not-to insist the couple who were already in trouble, but lady didn't mind. In last I requested to that old age uncle to give his seat to Poor person (who had taken his baby in his lap).

The old age uncle did it, we thanked him for leaving his seat. Then we told to Poor person to occupy the seat behind that seat. He occupied the seat (left by the old age man) with his baby after that lady occupied the seat (as she wanted to take reserved seat).
Passengers of the bus also murmured on her with many phrases/comments like,

"agar itne hi bade hai to apne Gadi se chalna chahiye (If they want this much in public transport, then they must took their own)".

"Itna beraham to koi aurat ho hi nhi skti (any woman wouldn't be rude like this)".

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On this she started quarrel with the persons over their. replies on each of comments.....

In last, when my stop was near to come, I asked the person about the health of his wife & I came to know that he have to take a journey of 45 minutes more. He replied that he don't have water, which was a need for his wife.

I requested to bus conductor to stop the bus for 2 minutes on next stop, he send me to driver, I requested to him, firstly he putted his points to-not-to stop bus for 2 minutes. But I committed my self to provide the water to those couple any how, some passengers agreed with my view. On very next stop I came outside the bus & ran toward a juice corner, asked for a bottle of water, in-time I was looking on bus also, suddenly bus starts moving, I insisted the shopkeeper to present the water & behaved that I am in hurry. As a few of passengers from bus were looking towards me, they insisted the driver to stop the bus. I took bottle from the shopkeeper & reach at bus & handed over that bottle to the poor person. Bus was there for 1 minutes & I passed in my commitment, which I made a few minute earlier (to provide water to that woman).

Sharing this happening is not-about-to-show my nature or show-off of myself. I did, what my heart told that time.

The main motto of sharing this to you all is, "Please don't be rude, or express how much you are stubborn. Just be a human being & help the human-in-need".

SPECIALLY for LADIES:- "Dears, RESERVED SEAT is for YOU, but it would be great if that seat may be presented to on who needs more than you".

Please do tell all your beloved-ones.....